Are you considering dating married men because you are having trouble finding a serious, long term relationship with someone who isn’t already attached? Let us say that you are a single female, and you have everything in the world that you need or want, except for a man. There could be many reasons for why this is.
For example, it may be because of your own choice, or it may be because you are simply a difficult person to be with or to deal with. We could spend the time going over all of the available reasons, but that really is not what this article is all about. Instead, let’s talk about why single women turn to dating married men.
We have all heard it before: Some single women say that dating married men is their preferred way to go is because not only is it easy for them, but also because it is a guaranteed no-commitment relationship, which is ideal when they are not looking for commitment. If you are not looking for commitment, however, why would you intentionally shack up with someone who is supposed to be committed for life because they are married? Why not choose a single guy who isn’t looking for commitment instead?
Dating married men may seem like a walk in the park when you are single and looking, but once you get into such a relationship it can have much different results all together. There is no real way that you can say that dating married men is something you do from time to time, because there are feelings that get factored into these equations in some way or another. Something drew you to the married man in the first place, you didn’t just choose him because you thought dating married men would be easy.
So when it comes to dating married men, you make think that you can just see him from time to time without getting any emotions involved, or without allowing yourself to be hurt. However, seeing someone only from time to time actually does involve a lot of things, such as trying to find time for one another without the wife finding out about you. You may be very busy, or you may have plenty of free time, but either way, trying to find time to see someone who is in a marriage can be very difficult no matter which way you go.
If you are free all day and just want to spend time with the person you are in a relationship with, you still have his obligations, including his wife, to contend with. Why put so much time and effort into simply working around his schedule? It sounds like a lot of work just to see someone who is already quite clearly in an attached relationship. Instead, you should try and find someone that has time for you because you are the only relationship he is in.
What is it that really drives you into the arms of a married man, with or without a family? Is it the danger and the excitement of living on the edge? You should know dating married men can leave you with emotional scars that will last a life time.